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Tuesday, June 28, 2011

My Living Room Disaster Area

I desperately need to find stuff to finish my living room. If you saw it now you'd probably have a decorators heart attack and die. I will post a quick picture just so you can see how badly I'm suffering.


Now this is a good news bad news thing. Good news, it looks way better in the picture than it does in person! Bad news, it looks way better in the picture than it does in person!

Lets splain. I do everything at the same time, or nothing at all. Example. Didn't date for 19 years. At all. What so ever. Met, Drew. "Dated" (long distance, emails, skype dates while he was deployed with no official relationship status), dated in person: 3 hours, got engaged, 2 months later moved, 1 month later married. BAM. Thats how I get things done.

And that is how things end up like this. Messy. (Not our marriage, our marriage is awesome! I found the only guy in the world who can handle me for long periods of time, can make me laugh even when I'm super grumpy, shares my appreciation for the ninja turtles, and loves egg salad sandwiches. eHarmony can't give you that kind of chemistry!)

So what happened hear is kitchen table (bottom left corner). Shortly after moving in (like an hour) mover lady knocked over one of my scented wall things and I didn't notice til the next day. Finish on the table was ruined in a few ugly blobs. We still blame me for this and I'm okay with it. in the old house I bought a runner to cover it, in this house the runner isn't good enough so I grab a bucket of white paint and paint the top of the table. I don't like it. Haven't finished yet, either painting it black and adding a few coats of poly or getting rid of it. Can't decide, need to decide on colors for the rest of the room first. Also Drew kindly sanded down the chairs a bit for me so I could paint them, so I have super smooth chairs that look awful because th finish is gone, and a table that doesn't look good.

Giant blue thing. Started like this.

Ugly. So I painted it. Blue. Took it outside and happily doused it in paint while getting a sunburn. I decided to start this project at 2 in the afternoon. It was 96 degrees out and according to the weather 'felt like 102'. I ran back and forth a lot. Unfortunately we do not have a garage we can do this in. As I continue to paint, and am about to put on a coat of poly.... here come rainclouds. We hadn't had rain for about 2... 2 and a half weeks. Grabbed Drew and we ran it back inside and put it on trash bags in the middle of our kitchen floor so it wouldn't get ruined. I would put the poly on inside to just get it done and deal with the suffocation, but my fur babies would totally rub against it, ruin it, and their fur.

Since then... as of some sort of miracle... we have not had a SINGLE day where it hasn't been predicted not to rain. Good news! Thursday looks like my day! Then I just have to buy new drawer pulls!

Now addressing, giant cardboard boxes (yes, there are 2... its Wheres Waldo! Can you find them both?) Couch (grey couch, who has its back facing us) just got here from O.co the other day (yeaaa $2.95 shipping!) and I'm in loooove. We just set it up and its awesome. Of course, our trash/recycle day was yesterday, and my husband does the breaking down of boxes, because he came home one day right before our real wedding and he saw me breaking down boxes of wedding gifts with an old dull kitchen knife and I almost sliced my wrist open. Well, he didn't break down these boxes... and now he will say that they won't pick it up until Monday so he will break them down on Sunday. I disagree. This needs to get done now...so we don't look so trashy.

Small ugly carpet. $20 at Walmart. It was brown, on sale, and it helps muffle some of the sound. Giant golden fluffy retriever has already eaten a corner. Good thing I didn't get that awesome West Elm rug first!

Very masculine leather couch in front of the windows. Is on its way out. Husbands couch from before we were married, super comfy... except for the bottomless pit corner where his old dog ate through the leather and a lot of the stuffing, then yellow fluffy dog helped the process and ripped out more stuffing when he was a baby. So super comfy, but destroyed. Also much too masculine for what I want in the main room... and its too big to fit down the hall into the man-cave as it barely fit in our front door.

Ugly red curtains on tension rods. Well, those windows behind them are 24'' wide, we will have to attach blinds to the top because they don't have sides unless I can find an 84'' blind... we have 3 of those windows, 84'' blinds are approx $350 per window... $350 * 3 = WAAAAY TOO MUCH MONEY ($1050 before tax) though if we get them at Lowes I think we can get the auto 10% discount on custom blinds and 10% military discount. Which should bring it to $850.50... but thats only if we get both discounts and then add tax. Still too expensive. So we're trying to figure out how to make 27'' blinds work (they sort of will?) and then add a non-obtrusive curtain rod and find pannels that I like. Red curtains are up there only because you can see in our front windows to our bedroom at night and we don't like that, there is a glare on the tv without them because its super sunny, tension rods are only $5 at target and I already have had those red curtains for about 10 years, and Husband likes to live in a cave.

Things you can see in the room? Giant dog fur dust bunnies that could eat small children (even though I groomed the dogs outside 2 days ago and vacuumed yesterday), the fact that my sink is full of dishes because I made popcorn last night after running the dishwasher and didn't feel like emptying it (stove top popcorn is the best), my pretty white table (from my first post) with all of Husband's work hats (because apparently thats what its for... now that I made it pretty), and the large paint sample we painted on the wall. But that last part is good, because now I don't think it's going to work!

Phew! That took a while. Well, I'm still planning different ideas for the room. I think we're leaning towards green and blue accents but I want to keep the room bright! I found all this black furniture I love, I just wish it came in white. It seems silly to buy $80 end tables just to paint them.

I'll be posting some ideas up soon and I could really use some options and advice, so please check back!!

Monday, June 27, 2011

Paint It White!

I have this problem where I so desperately want my house to look bright and clean that I just want to paint everything WHITE! Problem is.. well a few things. 1. I have 2 dogs... 2 dogs who like to shed.

Cute, right? No. There is SO MUCH EVIL packed into these two dogs. But I love them. Sorry for the bad quality photos, these were taken on my phone. My Golden Retriever is about to turn 1 in a few weeks, and my Corgi turns 7 in August. Corgi was born and raised in New England, now that we live in NC hes having a hard time adapting to the heat, he has a double coat (blessed with a thick head of hair like his mama) which already shed a lot, now I do marathon brushings every day, vacuum every other day, and I still look like I have dust bunnies that could eat small children.

So I had to say no to white furniture, and pretty much everything clean looking. The Golden sheds hairs longer than my hair. He also likes to run around and whip up all the fur he can into the air, and roll around on my bed... a lot.

2. My husband can get dirty at work and his boots come in the house and his uniforms get tossed aside and sometimes they are dirty too. I don't want them ruining everything!

I'd love to have a fuzzy white rug in our living area but that seems to just be asking for trouble with the dogs, the husband, and in the future children...

So now I'm stumped on how to make my living room look bright. I have a gray sofa we just bought, I'm in love with it because fur just brushes right off. I figured I could add a white throw pillow to brighten in, but I can't decide on colors for the rest of the room. I like blues and greens but I want it to stay bright. If anyone has any inspiration photos please let me know! My living room is a disaster at the moment.

Thursday, June 23, 2011

My Menagerie

So, you all probably don't know, but might have received a hint from previous posts that I have an obsession with white ceramic/glass animals. So much so that my best friend and I designed an entire kitchen and living room around a ceramic glass owl pitcher that she bought (for $40 and it was SO worth it) before I got married. We never got our apartment together because things started to move a bit faster with Drew and I, but I miss her, and that pitcher.

Then recently I bought my white giraffe lamp (you can see it in 'The Deals' tab, or in my older TJ Maxx post!) which I am in love with, and trying to be good I passed over a white ceramic owl the other day at TJ Maxx. Woke up at 5 am the next day, regretting it, and was at TJ Maxx for when they opened to find out that someone else bought it!!! (I trolled the aisles for over an hour.. and my TJ Maxx is small).

Well, I am crippled here because we only have 1 small TJ Maxx and nothing else. No Marshalls, no HomeGoods. Rarely does my TJ Maxx have good stuff. Though I did find a ton of furniture I LOVED the other day, my couch isn't here yet so I don't know what will go. I found a gray nail head bench that would make an adorable window seat but the bottom is a bit flimsy, as in I sit on it and I feel like my butt is going to fall through the other side. I would pay $40-50 for it, but not $80 because my Golden Retriever will probably hop on it and break it.

I've had to expand my search for awesome ceramic animals to online. I have found a few things I love and I thought I would share it with you. (Also, I am very picky about type of animal, go figure.)

If Drew asks this is what I want for our 1 year anniversary!

This is the same pitcher she bought for $40 a year ago!

I've seen this in person... and its awesome!!

This giraffe also comes in lamps and wall sconces!

SO CUTE!!
This is so so so so so cute!

Jonathan Adler's website has so may cute animals its really worth it to go check it out! That and lots of other lovely things!!!

Hope you're all having a great day! 

Tuesday, June 21, 2011

If I Could Do It All Again: Wedding

I would still marry the same guy. Hands down, the best man I've ever known (next to my daddy!) and I'm so lucky to have him, but my wedding day wasn't what I expected it to be. I had dreams of a grand wedding, and dreams of an adorable backyard wedding. My wedding fell in between, and not a good in between. I had fun, but I wish I had spent so much less on it doing what I wanted rather than what it seemed like my family was pushing and pulling for.

Drew and I were married in October in the courthouse, my family pushed for a 'wedding' within 6 months. I wanted a wedding in April or May but his parents were busy and wouldn't have been able to come. I would have been happy to keep waiting for any time during the summer. I'm glad it's done and that we can move on, but in the house we are in now it would have been perfect. We would have been married on the front steps. And I've already picked out clothes again!

Wedding Dress: $150 on Modcloth.com
My dress was $1,600 Paloma Blanca

 Maid Of Honor Dress: JCrew $168
My sister is a redhead so would object to wearing coral, but would wear coral accents. Besides, I like pattern and shes special so I would have wanted her to stand out if it wasn't just her.

Bridesmaids would have worn a bright red coral. This dress is from Modcloth as well. $137.99  My sisters dress as my maid of honor was less expensive than this, but still. I could have also had my best friend be a bridesmaid instead of just my sister at my side.

My wedding was lovely, but I wanted to carry big red gerber daisies, wear coral heels with white polka dots, have a big bbq with my family in my backyard and dance under the stars. If I could do it all again I would. And spend only a fraction of what I spent, and I think everyone would have had more fun too!

Saturday, June 18, 2011

THIS IS MY EXCITED FACE!

Thank you all my dear darling nestie friends who convinced me to look further online for furniture. You were right, I was wrong, and I did find something I think I'm going to like. We ordered a new sofa online last night! Thank you o.co I always wanted a sofa shipped for only $2.95 instead of the $150-200 other places were quoting! I can't wait to see it. Even though Drew and I are avid haters of microfiber, we ordered a microfiber couch. Yes, now we are hypocrites but all the review's said that is was really nice quality microfiber so we're assuming by nice quality they mean it doesn't look like microfiber. The only real complaint I have with that material is the fact that if it's brushed in all different directions then it looks dirty.

I had planned out most of my living room yesterday, I liked the idea of doing a very bright living room, but then reality sank in. I have two dogs, and someday we will have children, and we cannot replace expensive sofas all the time. So instead of my beautiful cream colored fabric sofa we opted to get a dark grey microfiber one... that cost about half as much. Yea cheaper! So if we have to replace it, it won't hurt as much, but we're also much less likely to replace it.

Dreamed: Pottery Barn Sofa
Price: $899 plus shipping


Ordered: O.co Sofa
Price: $532.99 (plus $49.50 for 5 year replacement warranty) and $2.95 in shipping.

So if we're playing the 'How I'm Saving A Ton of Money This Summer' game, then I just saved  about $513. Go me!

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

Awesome Sale Items I Can't Afford Right Now...

So I'm trying to penny pinch since I quit my job (for good reasons). I'm a SAHW for the time being, but getting a lot done with helping to train our puppy (who is turning one next month!) better, keeping the house clean and organized, actually organizing the things we never organized when we moved in, and redecorating. I'm trying to be good about finding ways to reuse the things we have and make them look good but I can't resist the urge of wanting something new. Lately I haven't done much besides look through the sale departments (I won't even let myself window shop full price).

Here are the awesome things I've come across.

Was: $49.00 (I was going to buy it full price)
Now: $39.99
It has just that hint of feminine that I love so much.

Was: $69 (full/queen)
Now: $49.99
Pillow Sham
Was: $19
Now: $14.99
I would have loved to put this in my guest room. It's still such a good deal!! I really want it.

Was: $6.00 (each)
Now: $2.95 (each)

Was: $229
Now: $114
We need outside furniture and I really love the simplicity of this!

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Nailed It!

I finally figured out the difficult equation of me +  x style of couch = love. I know Drew wants a sectional but I didn't know what exactly made a couch appealing to me, then I realized this morning as I was half awake standing in my yard with my puppy, the answer is FEET. I like visible feet on couches. I do not like the bed skirt equivalent on couches, I want to see their feet. It makes them get a bit dirtier underneath but it also makes them easier to clean underneath, easier to find when dogs lose their toys underneath, and there is less fabric for dog fur to get stuck to.

Our original plan was to get a KARLSTAD sectional from IKEA. I was hoping we could fit a giant one but it doesn't look like it, so we would be sticking to the sofa/chaise combo, which is really more of a couch with an ottoman... just attached. The closest IKEA to us is 4+ hours away in each direction though so we'd have to get shipping (the gas wouldn't be worth it and we'd probably have to rent a moving van) and shipping is $200 so we would need to buy a lot of stuff to be worth it. We were planning on a new dresser, we wanted end tables and a kitchen table and chairs too but you can't buy those online.

But since I now know that I just want a sofa with feet I'm going to see if Drew would be willing to settle for a sofa and an ottoman, and we can probably save a million dollars in shipping. Finding a dresser is the only issue now.

And my next task is acquiring a large canvas to use as a headboard for our bed! Projects for some day when I have a little bit of money.